Friday, August 1, 2025

Gothic Yearning: Going Back to my Roots

Hi all!

It’s been almost 2 years of wearing lolita, but sometimes I’ve feel like I’ve lost the essence of the style that represents me. I’m having fun with coording, but I often feel that I’ve left my gothic roots behind. Therefore, I feel a bit conflicted. Wearing sweet and experimental coords is fun, but when I look back at the photos, I’m like, “hey this doesn’t really represent me… LOL.”


People liked this coord, but it’s not my typical thing!

It’s a bit weird to think about! Well, if I wear it, maybe it is my style in a strange way? Or maybe it isn’t, and it’s more like a fun get-up for the day? I mean, there’s nothing wrong with enjoying things that don’t really “represent” you in the strictest sense. 


Still, I want to get back into my gothic style roots. I‘ve always loved EGA and it is one of my biggest inspirations in jfashion. I do enjoy coording and sewing Lolita a lot, which is why I’ve stuck with it. But one day, I may shift back towards EGA!


I decided to do a bit of a gothic style challenge. I haven’t stuck with wearing gothic because I feel like the color palette is redundant sometimes, and I like a colorful feed. I decided to wear and feature 5 gothic coords! Let’s satisfy my gothic yearning!


Coord One


OP: Wild Fable (altered)
Headdress, nun collar: Dearly Valentine
Purse: Upcycled/thrifted
Shoes: Offbrand


I wore this coord out on International Lolita Day, just for some studying. I didn’t want to wear anything too uncomfortable, so this altered target dress was great! I ended up layering it with a nun collar, which was always something I wanted to do with this dress. Nun lolita is a bit out of my comfort zone sometimes, since it sometimes can read as costumey. I'm also not great at gothic makeup, so there's that too LOL. However, I think it turned out alright!


Coord Two


Blouse: Present Box
Vest: Axes Femme
Headdress: Dearly Valentine
Purse: Upcycled/thrifted
Skirt: Offbrand
Shoes: Offbrand


This coord was something I had planned for a long time, but I couldn't wait until the final item came in to wear it. I had to substitute a cheap offbrand skirt for the bottom, but you don't really end up noticing too much! (Ahh...I will await my Victorian Maiden Skirt). I wore this to a nice dinner at a convocation. I ended up not wearing the headpiece just to tone it down. My mom stole my purse for the night so I grabbed something else LOL.


Coord Three


OP: Pyramid Collection (altered)
Headdress: Atelier Pierrot
Shoes: Offbrand


This is a coord I have pretty much worn before, the only difference being the short underskirt I wore under it instead of the long one I wore previously. I wore this to hang out with my friend at the Orange Old Town! Luckily, it wasn’t crazy hot but I had to take my choker off at some point since it got a bit warm. I love how elegant this OP is! It’s such a great offbrand find.


Coord Four

OP: Vintage (altered)
Headdress, bloomers: Dearly Valentine
Shoes: Yosuke


Shiro gothic my love! To be honest, maybe this is stylistically on the sweet end due to the length and styling. For the sake of this post it’s going to be gothic to me. Eh yes I have my mummy platforms on good enough. >:) I upcycled this dress and I really love it to be honest! I has so maybe styling options with the detachable capelet and trumpet sleeves. The contrast between the shiny organdy and cotton panels also is a nice detail to me.


Coord Five


JSK: Metamorphose
Headdress: Dearly Valentine
Shoes: Bodyline

This is a simple gothic blouseless coord that I wore for my trip to Washington state. It wasn’t too warm, but it was quite sunny and the weather was suitable for this style! I don’t wear my jsks without blouses too often, but I think it has a nice casual effect. With a black lippie, it definitely gives more gothic vibes! 

I think this little challenge definitely helped me feel a bit more in touch with my gothic clothing items. I have been neglecting them a little bit because I worry that my coording will feel repetitive. Or, I just want to reach for something that is super casual and comfy that day, and I don’t always think up the best coord ideas. To be honest, there isn’t anything wrong with that! But im happy that I was able to also try a few gothic coords that I’ve been thinking of wearing but haven’t quite got to. 

Until next time~
Valentine


Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Old School Lolita Tag


Hi all!

I decided to answer the questions from the Old School Lolita tag created by AngelBruises, Gravelvet, EmbroideredDoll, The Flufferdome, Candib3ar, SweetJosephine03 and TroubleInTheMessageCentre.

Usually, this is done with a video, but I didn't feel like filming haha.


Old School Lolita Tag

1. What is the current coord you are wearing?

Well... this didn't translate too well into a blog post because I am currently in PJs xD. The last coord I wore however was my BTSSB Cul de Paris JSK that I paired with my handmade bonnet.

2. What is the oldest piece in your wardrobe?

The oldest piece in my wardrobe is either this 2001(?) Angelic Pretty OP featured in GLB 1, or this 1999-2001 Metamorphose sundress (it has the Curly tag, but it isn't on lolibrary).

Mami

GLB 001


3. What is a piece released after 2010 that you often use in your old school coordinates?

Hmm... this is a bit challenging to answer because most of my staple items are post-2010 because I made them. 😂 I frequently wear this pair of long bloomers I made from an old skirt!

4. What kind of item is missing from your wardrobe?

I would love to have a shiro main piece with raschel lace. I love crazy OTT lace monsters but I don't yet have one! I love designs by old Meta and Kazuko Ogawa. Meta recently released one of their popular princess sleeve OPs, but it doesn't quite scratch that itch for me.

(Edit from future me: OKAY SCRATCH THAT-  I immediately DIYed a shiro lace monster promptly after writing this…)

Kazuko Ogawa Long OP

Organdy Babydoll OP

5. Your Old School Dream Dress.

It's really hard for me to narrow down an ultimate "holy grail," especially because I'm really satisfied with my current wardrobe. I don't know that any new dress would necessarily warrant that title (especially at the price points they are currently at) xD

Well, let me think! Hmm... this is such a basic answer, but I chose it because I believe that it would be impossible to acquire in my lifetime.

Velveteen Elizabeth OP (2001) 

It is pretty funny because I do know someone in my lolita comm who owns this exact OP! They happen to be the person who submitted this photo to Lolibrary. Ah... it is so rare but I was lucky to even see it in person! I was captivated by the elegance and charm of this dress. I hope BTSSB one day rereleases it in velveteen 💓


7. Your Old School dream item that isn't a dress?

Currently, I would love to own this Meta Crown Cotton Lace Blouse!


8. An aspect of Old School you think is missing from lolita now?

An aspect that I think is missing is DIY and handmade items! Of course, there are still plenty of people who handmake lolita, but I think it is less common. I also think another aspect that is missing is the carefree attidude people shared back then. We care a lot more about appearances and looking "good" now, I think! I'm not immune to this myself, but I do try to channel that energy sometimes through casual lolita coords and no-makeup coords. Also, the IDGAF energy that people had when posing for photos was equally hilarious and badass.


9. Your favorite photo from a lolita magazine.

This is really hard to choose! I guess I will include a few favorites.

GLB 4

This one is so cute and peak shiro coord! I recreated it before and was happy with the result.

Alice Doll

I have this exact VISIBLE OP but with short sleeves. I thought it would be longer, but I realize now that I'm much taller than the girl here LOL. The front hits me nearly at crotch length, so I wear a black underskirt beneath it.

Not sure where it's from oops

These dolly-esque looks are so cute! I'm not sure if this is from a magazine, but I'm sure many people have seen this photo around.

10. Your favorite piece from your wardrobe.

This is too hard to answer, I have a lot of favorites LOL. I am particularly fond of my VISIBLE Op that’s featured in Alice Girl. I wish it fit me a bit better though.

I also love my handmade shiro OP! 


(Why does this feel like a mirror image of question #9? 😂)

11. Your favorite coord from Kamikaze Girls.

Oooo! Here's a fun blog that shows Momoko's closet from Kamikaze Girls. I have to say the classic Red x White Elizabeth OP coord is my favorite. I love the big rose details on her headdress!


12. Your best Old School lolita bargain.

Best bargain huh… I think I have had 2 pretty good deals! I found this gothic style OP for about $35 at a vintage pop up. It’s offbrand, but it has incredible Princess Sleeves andr aschel lace. I just upcycled it slightly (there’s a blog post on it).


I also found this op for around $35 as well! This one required a more intensive alteration but I used old bedsheets that didn’t cost much. I also made a capelet and choker! I’ll write about my process in a blog post soon.


Well, that’s it for the tag! It was super fun, although it took me a long while to get to it 😂. Hope you enjoyed reading!


Until next time~

Valentine


Sunday, June 22, 2025

June Haul: Gothic Edition!

Hi all!

For the past few months, I've been thinking about how I'm reaching the end-game stage of lolita fashion. It's a bit like how I've invested 600+ hours into Animal Crossing. I mean, I've terraformed my entire island, and there's not much space to decorate it anymore (except maybe one spot...)

That is all to say that I'm nearing my 30 main piece limit I've set for myself. Now, I could add some stipulations that "handmade" doesn't count, or that my cheaper taobao pieces didn't really count either xD but the truth is, having too many items takes up a lot of mental and physical space. I think that I may be ready to shift towards an old school gothic and EGA closet, and perhaps it's time to let go of some pieces that are too sweet or classic. Erm... hopefully then I can atone for my recent shopping crimes😅 

Recent Buys

Metamorphose Unknown Sundress (1999-2001?)



I've been looking for a black jsk for a while, although it was low on my priority list since I have a ton of black OPs. I much prefer the comfort of OPs, but I do lament the fact that I could not do the classic "Old School Black JSK x White Blouse" look. (Aha, now I can!) I'm unsure of when this item was released, especially because it wasn't on lolibrary. However, it does have the curly tag, which points to it being an earlier piece. 

To be honest, curly tag Meta is not amazing quality. The design is super cute, but the material is thin and the stitching is visible against the lace. However, I do think that I will wear this a lot since it is my only all-black jsk! Not a total dealbreaker for me, but just something to note.

Yosuke White Platforms



Seriously, I've been searching for a white platform in my size for MONTHS! I passed up a pair of Atelier Pierrot Gold Frame Pumps in white, and it just did not sit right with me after that. I always felt like this was a missing piece in some of my coord options. Luckily, I finally got some that fit. They're so cute and perfect for gothic shiro coords.

Victorian Maiden Velveteen Skirt


I really wanted a long skirt that would work for EGA looks, especially because I have a blouse and vest which would be perfect for that. When I saw this, I wasn't too sure if it was exactly what I wanted, but the price was decent so I gave it a shot! The quality is nice and the velveteen is luxurious. At least, I'll be able to finally wear the top items with something.

Black Peace Now Coat


This was not on my high priority wishlist, but this coat was giving major EGA and gothic lolita vibes. I love that it can be versatile! Like I mentioned, I just really want to go back into wearing more gothic fashion. I can definitely see this being one of my favorite pieces. It's super comfortable and flattering! Eventually, I might move most of clothing towards this direction, so it's a start.

Le Vitrail Kickstarter 


I was really excited that there was going to be a gothic & lolita magazine revival with this new project. It looks super promising and I would love to support the talented artists and contributors of this publication! 

Okay, I'm ready to go on a no-buy now LOL😂 Maybe I will start selling or trading a few pieces as well. Either way, I'm pretty happy with these pieces. Previously, I was a bit hesitant to get more gothic items even though it's what I like. I definitely prioritized variety in the past, but I know that my end goal is to narrow my style down a bit.

That's all! Until next time~
Valentine


Friday, June 13, 2025

My Actual Thoughts on Being Ace

Hi all! Ok first of all, happy Pride Month to everyone who celebrates :3

I was a bit hesitant to post this because it's a slighty sensitive topic for me. Sexuality is such a diverse and sometimes confusing thing -- it's not really something I have actively attempted to explore outside the past year or so. While I might've known since highschool, being asexual didn't register to me until I reached my 20s. Of course, being the age where a lot of people get into relationships, it triggers a lot of mixed feelings. And with it being Pride Month, it's also a bit hard to avoid thinking about this topic😂

This isn't exactly an informative post; it's my personal experience! But maybe some people can learn or relate a bit. Treat this as a bit of a public diary entry. I decided to put cat pictures because this is a word salad. My attention span is dead too.

me typing on the puter

My Asexuality, Labels, and the LGBTQ+ Community

Lately, I was reminiscing about a wonderful asexual therapist I had, who had since left the school I was attending. I'm not sure where she is now (...is it weird to try to track her down so I can see her again? LOL). She guided me on some self-introspection that helped me organize my thoughts.

Honestly, I'm not a big fan of putting labels on sexuality and things like that. I mean, when you associate with a label, people immediately jump to conclusions. Hey, but I know it does help linguistically to express our thoughts, and there's no way around that. I'm asexual and on the aromantic spectrum. It doesn't fully express the nuances of how I feel or go through, but it's a start.

To be honest, I've always had difficulty relating to other people who fall under the queer or LGBTQ+ label. Maybe it is nuanced, but "not feeling" a form of attraction is still quite different than "feeling" non-heteronormative forms of attraction or variations in gender identity. Maybe that is why I always felt a bit isolated, it's hard to find a sense of community when you can't quite relate. That's not to say this is the case for all asexual people, some do identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community!

Even so, I discussed this with my therapist, who had said that her research about asexual individuals revealed that they're the non-heteronormative group that feels the least connection to the queer community. You can read the preview of the dissertation here! It's quite interesting. I’m  lowkey trying to chase her down for the full text.

we do be reading tho

Okay, okay, like I said. Thinking about this stirs up mixed feelings in me. Some asexual people deal with self-esteem issues which stem from wanting to fit in or be allosexual. I don't think I've experienced this exactly. I didn't feel exactly "broken" or like I should've been different. But you know what still makes me sad? I struggled to accept the fact that my love life got extremely nerfed. Hey, it's one thing to be ace, and it's another thing to be on the aromantic spectrum. 😂 Sheeesh.)


Asexuality and The Quest for Love?

Asexual people may or may not experience romantic attraction. If they don't, they would also be aromantic. People seem to think AroAce people would not care for a relationship at all. In fact, this could be far from the truth. They could have fulfilling relationships like everyone else! Check out more on queer platonic relationships

Anddddd... I swear this wasn't supposed to be an informative post but I HAVE TO SHARE THIS. This chart is so helpful and shows that there are different types of attraction besides romantic and sexual attraction. 


I don't experience sexual attraction, and would consider myself a sex-repulsed aegosexual (if I really had to choose a microlabel 😬). The romantic attraction part is harder for me to conceptualize, but I'm left feeling like I'm somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. The weird part is, I have a gender preference! I'm more attracted to men, so perhaps I could say I'm straight. But I somehow I struggle to imagine what romantic feelings are like, and I can't confidently say I've ever experienced it. Is this the aesthetic attraction kicking in instead? I don't know, and if my therapist did not leave, I'm sure I would have asked her more about this. It remains an unanswered question in my mind! 


I experience all the other forms for attraction very clearly though. It's definitely enough for me to say that I would like to one day be in a monogamous relationship with someone who feels similarly. I deeply value platonic, intellectual, and emotional connections. I would feel attracted to someone because of that. Aesthetic attraction is a bonus too, and usually it is the first thing people typically notice. However, I think my perception of someone's beauty is also influenced by how positively or negatively I feel about them overall. So stay slaying, my fellow chopped huzz.


Last Thoughts

Well, I'm trying to stay positive that one day I will find the right person! At the same time though, I cannot deny that I feel a bit disappointed that doing so is so tricky. I may someday like someone, and they may be allosexual or alloromantic. It is incredibly hard to find out whether someone could be ace or not...because we almost never have any reason to "come out." LOL. And sure, online dating within Ace spaces is another option but... bleh that sounds like something I'm not ready for right now😅

Anyway, feeling urgency to find a partner is the weird thing you have to deal with being in your 20-somethings. I hope that I make the right choices for myself and live life without regrets. Flowers bloom where you water them the most. At this point, I may not be watering the "relationship" aspect of life, but one day I might. Right now, I have plenty of other things to grow!

I wish you all the best, thank you for reading~
Valentine

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Monday, May 26, 2025

My Current Faves and UNfaves


Hi all! Long time no see... I've been thinking, "man, it's way to much work to write a blog post!"

But anyway, I think I will expand this blog to have some more ramblings. It is a bit much to write long posts with pictures and all. But this post is here to basically say "hey, I'm alive!" ...maybe it will just be a personal diary of sorts.

I just wanted to come and talk about my current favorite things, since I've been feeling a little lost on my current interests. None of us are immune to propaganda I suppose! It's quite hard to not be influenced by current trends. However, knowing myself well, I usually fall out of love with them after some time. The things I DO like are pretty consistent however. Although, they are somewhat hard to obtain. (Where do I get a vampire castle again...?)

Read all about it!

Chia Seed Pudding

Here's my recipe! I have this every day (or night). It makes for the perfect dessert or breakfast. Just add chia seeds to liquid in a 1:4 ratio. These are all the ingredients I use:
  • chia seeds
  • honey
  • coconut beverage (trader joes)
  • oat milk vanilla creamer (whole foods)
Just adjust it to your taste! I like it a bit thick. Make sure for the first 10-ish minutes to stir the concoction occassionally so that clumps don't form when you let it set. Chill overnight and enjoy!

Cleaning 

Well, this is a bit of a weird one but I've been feeling hella unemployed lately. Man I really don't do much all day...aside from occassionally going to school. Here are some cleaning tips that have made me feel a lot better...

1) Keeping the bathroom sink tidy (no hair, clutter, or dust). 
2) Using laundry scent beads to give a fresh boost.
3) Letting sheets air out and spraying a little perfume or bed spray before making the bed.
4) Scrubbing the heck out of that kitchen sink.

Some of my cleaning wishlist items are a sponge rack that sticks to the side of the sink. And a spray bottle to rehome my bleach! My bleach sprayer is broken... but I have yet to replace the bottle. I want to also get a scrubber for the tub, so I can make it nice and clean if I ever want a bath. (I never take baths).

I really like this new laundry scent booster I got. 


Vivienne Westwood Bag

I will never fall for Vivienne Westwood propaganda!!! Just kidding. 

I got my first VW piece on Mercari JP. I think it's such a popular piece in old school lolita history. It's super cute but the texture is... not so cute. It's definitely prone to getting a bit dirty, and I gave it a deep clean before I used it. Man.... the water turned so gross.


I think this is one awesome statement piece! It can go with any coord of course, but I love the proto-style outfits as seen here. I put some cute charms on mine. Go Mr. Panda keychain!! He broke within the first 5 minutes of going to a convention. Luckily, there's that cosplay repair station nearby. Check out my coord!


Jirai/Ryousangata Daily Vlogs

These are so so entertaining and calming to me. I love the asmr and chill vibe of them. It is funny how many jirai girls are lowkey chainsmokers LOL. Well, I guess they use this thing called IQOS now? Either way, I will watch hours of these videos. I have no interest in this subculture, but there's something so mesmirizing about beautifying your life. They love to collect cute things and pretty cosmetics. I'm not too big on collecting a lot of items, so this lifestyle isn't for me. But I will live vicariously!




Skincare / Hair Products

I'm really not crazy about 10-step beauty routines. I've just gone a long time without the proper basics LOL. Can you believe I haven't used conditioner for months because I ran out?

Here's what I like so far!
  • Anua Heartleaf Toner, cleanser, and peach niacin serum
  • Mixsoon Galactomyces Extract
  • &Honey Conditioner and Hair Mask
  • Purito Water Cream
  • OUAI leave in conditioner
I'm not a beauty guru, so don't ask me for the deets. I just think it feels nice to have moisturized skin and soft hair. I was dry as hell before I started a regular skin and hair routine. All I used was cleanser and lotion before. But it feels nice to have some extra stuff! It makes your skin really smooth.


My UNfaves

What's an UNfave? I guess it's propaganda I haven't been falling for LOL. There's nothing wrong with liking these things, but I'm trying to avoid them! They're just not going to have that much of a positive impact on my life personally. It's really hard to resist some of these though...

Light-mode IKEA furniture

I'm strugging so hard because I know that my true love lies in vintage style furniture. However, realistically, I can't exactly own things like that when I rent an apartment. 

However, mass produced furniture lowkey gives me the ick T^T. It does good in a pinch, but I just don't want to buy too much of it. Still, what should a girl do with her living space... decisions decisions.

Trinkets!?


Sanrio does not have a chokehold on me.

I really cannot deal with clutter, and I have definitely realized that trinkets are my enemy. No matter how cute they are! I might be somewhat of a weird minimalist maximalist at heart. I love to own stuff, but I HATE looking at all my stuff! I hate cleaning around it too LOL. I feel the most peace of mind when all of it is hidden away. I still love some decorations and trinkets (don't get me wrong), but any more plushies or plastic figurines are usually a no-go. I think things that I can enjoy without it taking up too much mental and physical space are neat. For example, I sometimes like pictures and prints, but I think I would rather flip through them when I want to rather than always having them on a wall.

That doesn't mean that I don't like trinkets at all though. At the end of the day I definitely lean more towards antique items and home decor. I guess it reminds me to be more choosy with what I buy. I think a good compromise for myself are examples of Old School Lolita rooms. Some of these snapshots show super gothic/victorian inspired rooms that were done in small apartments. So it's kind of like a bit of a modern and vintage crossover! You can do what you can!

Cosmetic Product Collections

I like makeup too, but I don't understand when people buy an excessive amount of it. If you can't use it all, wouldn't it expire? I also think there's a bit of brand name obsession sometimes. I'm not completely immune to it, but I try to be. I think you really just have to tell yourself that you don't need it just because everyone else has it xD it's fine really.

Also, I think beauty standards have gotten more strict in modern times. People kind of fall into that trap of think they need makeup to fit in. I often look at old street snaps where people didn't wear heavy makeup. They embraced their natural look. There's a lot of beauty in being a bit frumpy and unpolished. Something that people are a bit scared to do in modern society I think!

I still feel a bit weird not wearing makeup with my coord pics, mostly because I WILL look like a ghost. But I have been trying to channel that energy a bit. I've worn glasses more often in my coord pics, and have been a lot more casual. 

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Ugh ok, I got tired of writing so I will stop now. There's probably a lot more I am currently a fan and a hater (a fan in a different font) of. I won't drag on about them though!

See you guys next time!
Valentine

Friday, January 3, 2025

My Trip to Europe

Hello again! I haven’t been blogging too much, but since it is currently my winter break, I thought I would crank out a long-ish post while I still had the chance LOL. 

I went on a trip to Europe for the first time, and I had so much fun visiting London and Paris. I managed to pack a capsule wardrobe for the trip, but I didn’t end up dressing up every single outing. Although, there were probably enough items to make a different coord for each day!

Here are the lolita items that I packed on my trip:

  • Cream Liz Lisa Cardigan
  • BTSSB Princess Coat with Capelet
  • Cornet Pink OP
  • Millefleurs Lace Up OP
  • Jane Marple Vest and Skirt
  • Black Taobao Skirt
  • White Taobao Skirt
  • Black Present Box Blouse
  • White BTSSB Waist Shirring Blouse
  • Black Drug Honey Blouse
  • Various socks and accessories
  • Petticoat
It was pretty cold when I went, ranging from 30-50F. I made sure to pack gloves, a scarf, thermals, and earmuffs. Luckily, they still worked with my coords! 

Day 1: London

On my first full day, I wore my Jane Marple set in an EGA style coord. I love that the underbust vest(?) can be worn with my frilly jabot blouse. The huge sleeves are such a statement detail!


After having breakfast, we headed to St. Paul's Cathedral. It was an incredible building and we climbed all the way to the top, where there were galleries which overlooked the bottom of the church and London. There were only stairs, so it was quite a workout! 


Afterwards, I walked to tbe abandoned ruins of St. Dusntan in the East Church Garden. It's a beautiful tucked-away church which was bombed in WII, and not rebuilt since. It has been turned into public garden, and I love the overgrown greenery on top of the gothic architecture. 


At night, we headed down to Soho and walked around. The holiday lights were really impressive. The mixture of modern and older style buildings was really unique to see! We ended up not eating a proper dinner, and instead had tea and cake at L'ETO. 


Most of them were pretty delicious! We got an apple tart, pistachio and rose cake, and a snowball cake. The peach tea was honestly more like hot juice, but it was still very yummy.


Day 2: Paris

We took the train to Paris the following day, and headed towards Arc de Triomphe at night. Unfortunately, it closed early due to the holiday hours, so we weren't able to go inside. I had a classic Steak and Frites dinner, although it was near a touristy area and wasn't cooked well. Mine was super well-done, and my cousins' was very raw. The cup of hot chocolate wasn't too bad though!



I ended up doing a Tartan look with my Millefleurs OP. To be honest, I was cold so I layered up with my coat and handmade scarf. I think the overall coord came out a lot better with these details! It kind of reminds me of Vivienne Westwood, or some of the outfits from Nana.

Day 3: Paris

On Day 3, I wore my Jane Marple set again, this time layering the skirt over a white one as my friend suggested. It helps make the unique flower lace stand out a lot better! I think it looks a lot better this way, compared to having nothing underneath.


Breakfast was some delicious pastries from a local bakery. I had the pistachio and raisin one!


We took the subway to the Eiffel tower in the morning, and also walked along the Seine. Unfortunately, the weather was pretty gloomy, but it was still so nice to see these major landmarks! I did think the Eiffel tower would be bigger though, haha.



We then visited the outside of the Notre Dame cathedral, and there was a huge line as expected. They were still rebuilding it after the fire, but at least visitors could go inside. I decided not to wait since it was too cold, and we continued walking to Saint Chapelle and the Luxemborg Gardens.


There isn't much to see in the winter, although there were still some flowers and a beautiful fountain.


At night, we went to Place de la Concord, where a small Christmas market was happening. It was right next to the Tulieries Christmas market as well. It was super crowded on Christmas day! It became a little hard to walk through the crowd of people, but we managed to try Vin Chaud, Cider Chaud, Churros, Ribs, and a Turkey Leg. The ribs and turkey were freshly grilled and tasted amazing! I was pleasantly surprised, since usually faire food can be a hit or miss. 

Day 4: Paris

The next day, we had breakfast at a local bakery. I ended up trying the pistachio and apricot tart, and my mom and cousin got the quiche and opera cake. 


Then, we visited the famous Louvre museum. It was really cold, and we started lining up 30 minutes before out 9:30am time slot. I definitely think an earlier time is a good move, because we were first in line and luckily only waited 30 minutes. When I saw the lines in the afternoon, they were crazy long!

I ended up wearing my Liz Lisa cardigan over my Cornet OP for a hime-inspired look. I think it turned out super cute and matched with the earmuffs and gloves I packed, which kept me warm in line.


After getting inside, I walked over to the Mona Lisa first thing, that way I could escape the long wait time later on. I only had to wait about 2 minutes to see it, although there was a 20 minute line later in the day.


I walked around so much and got to see some impressive paintings, sculptures, and furnishings. There was so many items that I couldn't have possibly seen them all. Still, I had such a good time!


Afterwards, I had lunch at Go Oun, which was recommended by my friend. Even though I was in Paris, I still crave Asian food haha. I love Korean Soondubu Jjigae, and it was really nice and filling in the cold weather.


I had to also pay a visit Angelic Pretty Paris. Even though I'm not a big AP fan, I still love window shopping! I was surprised that it was the same size as the SF store, although it had a lot less items. However, it was furnished super cute and I loved the vibe.


For dinner, we had duck confit at a nearby restaurant. It was pretty dry and salty, so it wasn't my favorite. We also tried duck terrine, which I didn't love. I never liked the aftertaste of pate, so it was too rich and heavy for me. 

Day 5: Paris

I decided to visit Square Lousie Michel and Sacre Coeur Basilica. The weather was really nice and sunny this day, so it was perfect for a walk! It was a pretty touristy area, and there were a lot of lockets on the surrounding fences.


Walking along this neighborhood, I saw some lovely shops! There was a chocolate store which had detailed recreations of famous landmarks all made in chocolate. 


I got myself a sugar lemon crepe and a hot chocolate at Carrete. Both were too sweet for me, but they were really warm and great for the cold weather. Nothing really compares to a freshly made crepe! 


After that, I walked to Montemarte cemetary and stopped by Boris Lumé Boulangerie. Although I haven't watched Miraculous Ladybug, it was still cool to see. I think it may be a popular spot for children to visit, as I saw a couple families taking their kids there. I got a sandwich, although it was difficult for me to really taste it with how cold it was outside. Still, the bread was really crisp and fresh.


Montemarte cemetary was absolutely beautiful and was a wonderful experience. I love cemetaries, and it is always so peaceful walking through them. I saw so many impressive graves and tombs, and my favorite was this small cathedral which had it's own stained windows. Best of all, there were also cats!


For dinner, we had duck confit again. but it tasted much better this time. It was tender, and the potatoes were crispy and flavorful. 

Day 6: Paris

We went to Musée d'Orsay on day 6, and I wore a simple maid-inspired BxW coord. IDC we love being ita in this house.


I loved seeing some incredible paintings by Bougereau in real life. Particularly, I love Dante and Virgil in Hell as well as his rendition of the Birth of Venus. There were also some great impressionist pieces in this museum, such as those by Van Gogh and Monet.


I also loved seeing the Art Noveau furniture that they had on display. Something is just so eerily whimsical about the way the furniture incorpates curves and asymmetry...I've never seen anything like it before!


Afterwards, I went to get something to eat at the Tulieries Market, which wasn't nearly as crowded during the day time. I wanted to try Sausage Tartiflette, but they didn't really add much cheese, and the sausage wasn't that tasty.


We then headed to Palaise Garnier, and didn't manage to make it in time to get tickets at the door. However, we were able to see the amazing architecture from the outside.


Galeries Lafayette Haussmann was nearby, so we decided to check it out. It was so crowded! There were a lot of fancy food and dessert stalls, as well as so many luxury brands. Of course, we didn't buy anything 😂


Day 7: London

Back in London again! This time, I just wore a simple coord with my Cornet OP and my handmade bonnet.


I wanted to visit the V&A museum since it was free, and I really enjoyed seeing the different items in their collection. They had so much furniture, sculptures, art, and other items. There were even fashion displays and a BTSSB coordinate. I was pretty tired from all the museum hopping, so I just explored 2 levels instead of all of them.


I decided to stop by a cafe in South Kensington, which was called Farm Girl. I had their happy hot chocolate (matcha, peppermint, and CBD oil) and almond butter banana toast. To be honest, I didn't really like either of them LOL. After having Parisan hot chocolate, the one I had here tasted really watery. The strange mix of flavors also wasn't too appealing, but maybe it was just the lingering flavor of CBD oil. 


Later, we had afternoon tea at the Orangery in the Kensington Gardens. Maybe I'm losing my penchant for afternoon tea, or it just really wasn't good. The sandwiches were subpar, and the desserts didn't taste great either. It kind of reminded me of airplane food. I think my expectations were pretty high since I was in London after all. Apparently the Ritz has a much better afternoon tea spread, but who knows haha.


There wasn't much to see in the gardens since it was winter, but there were some swans! 


At night, I went to Angel and just walked around. There wasn't going to be any markets on the days I went, but I decided to check out the vintage stores in the area. I think some shops were still closed for the holidays. It was a nice little area though!


Day 8: London

This was my last full day in Europe, and I was getting pretty tired by the end of it haha. I wanted to visit Camden Town and just relax. I heard that Camden isn't as nice as it used to be, especially being more commercialized in the past few years. I still had a good time though! I went early in the day, which meant that there were less people. However, by the time afternoon rolled around, it became crowded.


Although there were a lot of touristy, cheap souvenir stalls, there still were a lot of cool shops. There was a Bandai Namco Store and a manga store with a decent selection. I also visited the Moomin store, which was super cute! I don't really know the show or characters that well though, haha.


I also visited a clothing store called Collectif, which had a lot of cool vintage inspired dresses. I really loved the black coat with fur trim.


There was this cool rave store called Cyberdog, which was so uniquely furnished. There were lots of cyber inspired decor, like robot mannequins and flashing lights. There was even a DJ station with music playing, and it was really fun to explore!


Camden Market also had a lot of kitschy gothic and punk shops. They're fun, although some are overpriced. Burleska was one that was recommended to me, and the pricing seemed a lot more fair. They have their own storefront and brand. I loved their selection of miniskirts! They came in so many colors. There was also some really cute boleros, but I don't know what I would wear with them.


I also visited Sai Sai, another gothic store. They had a lot of Dark in Love clothing and even some lolita brands like Infanta. They don't allow photos, but I saw a cute skirt with a piano motif there. It was expensive for what it was though haha.


There were also quite a few food stalls within the market, mostly selling Chinese food. I went a little further out and got some Korean fried chicken and a drink, which was pretty affordable.


I didn't end up buying anything from Camden, although it was a pretty cool experience!

Closing Remarks

I really had a great time in Europe and would love to come back again! The food was really great and I loved seeing all the beautiful architecture that is unique to European countries. All of the museums I went to were really impressive as well.

Thanks for reading to the end of this very long post~ 

See you next time,
Valentine