Friday, January 3, 2025

My Trip to Europe

Hello again! I haven’t been blogging too much, but since it is currently my winter break, I thought I would crank out a long-ish post while I still had the chance LOL. 

I went on a trip to Europe for the first time, and I had so much fun visiting London and Paris. I managed to pack a capsule wardrobe for the trip, but I didn’t end up dressing up every single outing. Although, there were probably enough items to make a different coord for each day!

Here are the lolita items that I packed on my trip:

  • Cream Liz Lisa Cardigan
  • BTSSB Princess Coat with Capelet
  • Cornet Pink OP
  • Millefleurs Lace Up OP
  • Jane Marple Vest and Skirt
  • Black Taobao Skirt
  • White Taobao Skirt
  • Black Present Box Blouse
  • White BTSSB Waist Shirring Blouse
  • Black Drug Honey Blouse
  • Various socks and accessories
  • Petticoat
It was pretty cold when I went, ranging from 30-50F. I made sure to pack gloves, a scarf, thermals, and earmuffs. Luckily, they still worked with my coords! 

Day 1: London

On my first full day, I wore my Jane Marple set in an EGA style coord. I love that the underbust vest(?) can be worn with my frilly jabot blouse. The huge sleeves are such a statement detail!


After having breakfast, we headed to St. Paul's Cathedral. It was an incredible building and we climbed all the way to the top, where there were galleries which overlooked the bottom of the church and London. There were only stairs, so it was quite a workout! 


Afterwards, I walked to tbe abandoned ruins of St. Dusntan in the East Church Garden. It's a beautiful tucked-away church which was bombed in WII, and not rebuilt since. It has been turned into public garden, and I love the overgrown greenery on top of the gothic architecture. 


At night, we headed down to Soho and walked around. The holiday lights were really impressive. The mixture of modern and older style buildings was really unique to see! We ended up not eating a proper dinner, and instead had tea and cake at L'ETO. 


Most of them were pretty delicious! We got an apple tart, pistachio and rose cake, and a snowball cake. The peach tea was honestly more like hot juice, but it was still very yummy.


Day 2: Paris

We took the train to Paris the following day, and headed towards Arc de Triomphe at night. Unfortunately, it closed early due to the holiday hours, so we weren't able to go inside. I had a classic Steak and Frites dinner, although it was near a touristy area and wasn't cooked well. Mine was super well-done, and my cousins' was very raw. The cup of hot chocolate wasn't too bad though!



I ended up doing a Tartan look with my Millefleurs OP. To be honest, I was cold so I layered up with my coat and handmade scarf. I think the overall coord came out a lot better with these details! It kind of reminds me of Vivienne Westwood, or some of the outfits from Nana.

Day 3: Paris

On Day 3, I wore my Jane Marple set again, this time layering the skirt over a white one as my friend suggested. It helps make the unique flower lace stand out a lot better! I think it looks a lot better this way, compared to having nothing underneath.


Breakfast was some delicious pastries from a local bakery. I had the pistachio and raisin one!


We took the subway to the Eiffel tower in the morning, and also walked along the Seine. Unfortunately, the weather was pretty gloomy, but it was still so nice to see these major landmarks! I did think the Eiffel tower would be bigger though, haha.



We then visited the outside of the Notre Dame cathedral, and there was a huge line as expected. They were still rebuilding it after the fire, but at least visitors could go inside. I decided not to wait since it was too cold, and we continued walking to Saint Chapelle and the Luxemborg Gardens.


There isn't much to see in the winter, although there were still some flowers and a beautiful fountain.


At night, we went to Place de la Concord, where a small Christmas market was happening. It was right next to the Tulieries Christmas market as well. It was super crowded on Christmas day! It became a little hard to walk through the crowd of people, but we managed to try Vin Chaud, Cider Chaud, Churros, Ribs, and a Turkey Leg. The ribs and turkey were freshly grilled and tasted amazing! I was pleasantly surprised, since usually faire food can be a hit or miss. 

Day 4: Paris

The next day, we had breakfast at a local bakery. I ended up trying the pistachio and apricot tart, and my mom and cousin got the quiche and opera cake. 


Then, we visited the famous Louvre museum. It was really cold, and we started lining up 30 minutes before out 9:30am time slot. I definitely think an earlier time is a good move, because we were first in line and luckily only waited 30 minutes. When I saw the lines in the afternoon, they were crazy long!

I ended up wearing my Liz Lisa cardigan over my Cornet OP for a hime-inspired look. I think it turned out super cute and matched with the earmuffs and gloves I packed, which kept me warm in line.


After getting inside, I walked over to the Mona Lisa first thing, that way I could escape the long wait time later on. I only had to wait about 2 minutes to see it, although there was a 20 minute line later in the day.


I walked around so much and got to see some impressive paintings, sculptures, and furnishings. There was so many items that I couldn't have possibly seen them all. Still, I had such a good time!


Afterwards, I had lunch at Go Oun, which was recommended by my friend. Even though I was in Paris, I still crave Asian food haha. I love Korean Soondubu Jjigae, and it was really nice and filling in the cold weather.


I had to also pay a visit Angelic Pretty Paris. Even though I'm not a big AP fan, I still love window shopping! I was surprised that it was the same size as the SF store, although it had a lot less items. However, it was furnished super cute and I loved the vibe.


For dinner, we had duck confit at a nearby restaurant. It was pretty dry and salty, so it wasn't my favorite. We also tried duck terrine, which I didn't love. I never liked the aftertaste of pate, so it was too rich and heavy for me. 

Day 5: Paris

I decided to visit Square Lousie Michel and Sacre Coeur Basilica. The weather was really nice and sunny this day, so it was perfect for a walk! It was a pretty touristy area, and there were a lot of lockets on the surrounding fences.


Walking along this neighborhood, I saw some lovely shops! There was a chocolate store which had detailed recreations of famous landmarks all made in chocolate. 


I got myself a sugar lemon crepe and a hot chocolate at Carrete. Both were too sweet for me, but they were really warm and great for the cold weather. Nothing really compares to a freshly made crepe! 


After that, I walked to Montemarte cemetary and stopped by Boris Lumé Boulangerie. Although I haven't watched Miraculous Ladybug, it was still cool to see. I think it may be a popular spot for children to visit, as I saw a couple families taking their kids there. I got a sandwich, although it was difficult for me to really taste it with how cold it was outside. Still, the bread was really crisp and fresh.


Montemarte cemetary was absolutely beautiful and was a wonderful experience. I love cemetaries, and it is always so peaceful walking through them. I saw so many impressive graves and tombs, and my favorite was this small cathedral which had it's own stained windows. Best of all, there were also cats!


For dinner, we had duck confit again. but it tasted much better this time. It was tender, and the potatoes were crispy and flavorful. 

Day 6: Paris

We went to Musée d'Orsay on day 6, and I wore a simple maid-inspired BxW coord. IDC we love being ita in this house.


I loved seeing some incredible paintings by Bougereau in real life. Particularly, I love Dante and Virgil in Hell as well as his rendition of the Birth of Venus. There were also some great impressionist pieces in this museum, such as those by Van Gogh and Monet.


I also loved seeing the Art Noveau furniture that they had on display. Something is just so eerily whimsical about the way the furniture incorpates curves and asymmetry...I've never seen anything like it before!


Afterwards, I went to get something to eat at the Tulieries Market, which wasn't nearly as crowded during the day time. I wanted to try Sausage Tartiflette, but they didn't really add much cheese, and the sausage wasn't that tasty.


We then headed to Palaise Garnier, and didn't manage to make it in time to get tickets at the door. However, we were able to see the amazing architecture from the outside.


Galeries Lafayette Haussmann was nearby, so we decided to check it out. It was so crowded! There were a lot of fancy food and dessert stalls, as well as so many luxury brands. Of course, we didn't buy anything 😂


Day 7: London

Back in London again! This time, I just wore a simple coord with my Cornet OP and my handmade bonnet.


I wanted to visit the V&A museum since it was free, and I really enjoyed seeing the different items in their collection. They had so much furniture, sculptures, art, and other items. There were even fashion displays and a BTSSB coordinate. I was pretty tired from all the museum hopping, so I just explored 2 levels instead of all of them.


I decided to stop by a cafe in South Kensington, which was called Farm Girl. I had their happy hot chocolate (matcha, peppermint, and CBD oil) and almond butter banana toast. To be honest, I didn't really like either of them LOL. After having Parisan hot chocolate, the one I had here tasted really watery. The strange mix of flavors also wasn't too appealing, but maybe it was just the lingering flavor of CBD oil. 


Later, we had afternoon tea at the Orangery in the Kensington Gardens. Maybe I'm losing my penchant for afternoon tea, or it just really wasn't good. The sandwiches were subpar, and the desserts didn't taste great either. It kind of reminded me of airplane food. I think my expectations were pretty high since I was in London after all. Apparently the Ritz has a much better afternoon tea spread, but who knows haha.


There wasn't much to see in the gardens since it was winter, but there were some swans! 


At night, I went to Angel and just walked around. There wasn't going to be any markets on the days I went, but I decided to check out the vintage stores in the area. I think some shops were still closed for the holidays. It was a nice little area though!


Day 8: London

This was my last full day in Europe, and I was getting pretty tired by the end of it haha. I wanted to visit Camden Town and just relax. I heard that Camden isn't as nice as it used to be, especially being more commercialized in the past few years. I still had a good time though! I went early in the day, which meant that there were less people. However, by the time afternoon rolled around, it became crowded.


Although there were a lot of touristy, cheap souvenir stalls, there still were a lot of cool shops. There was a Bandai Namco Store and a manga store with a decent selection. I also visited the Moomin store, which was super cute! I don't really know the show or characters that well though, haha.


I also visited a clothing store called Collectif, which had a lot of cool vintage inspired dresses. I really loved the black coat with fur trim.


There was this cool rave store called Cyberdog, which was so uniquely furnished. There were lots of cyber inspired decor, like robot mannequins and flashing lights. There was even a DJ station with music playing, and it was really fun to explore!


Camden Market also had a lot of kitschy gothic and punk shops. They're fun, although some are overpriced. Burleska was one that was recommended to me, and the pricing seemed a lot more fair. They have their own storefront and brand. I loved their selection of miniskirts! They came in so many colors. There was also some really cute boleros, but I don't know what I would wear with them.


I also visited Sai Sai, another gothic store. They had a lot of Dark in Love clothing and even some lolita brands like Infanta. They don't allow photos, but I saw a cute skirt with a piano motif there. It was expensive for what it was though haha.


There were also quite a few food stalls within the market, mostly selling Chinese food. I went a little further out and got some Korean fried chicken and a drink, which was pretty affordable.


I didn't end up buying anything from Camden, although it was a pretty cool experience!

Closing Remarks

I really had a great time in Europe and would love to come back again! The food was really great and I loved seeing all the beautiful architecture that is unique to European countries. All of the museums I went to were really impressive as well.

Thanks for reading to the end of this very long post~ 

See you next time,
Valentine

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

2025 New Year’s resolutions

Hi friends! 

Long time no post…I thought I would make a post about my goals for this upcoming year in terms of this hobby. It has brought me a lot of joy, and I'm excited to see what this year brings!

Attend a Lolita Tea Party

Despite there being a ton of tea parties in my local community, I haven't been to very many. To be honest, I think the price is a bit steep for the quality of food provided here in SF. However, I think it would be nice to go to at least one, just as a special occasion and to catch up with friends. There’s an old school tea party in January, and I already booked my spot!

Update my Digital Wardrobe

I don't have an unmanageable amount of pieces, but I do want to make sure I only keep pieces I love. Luckily, I don't usually feel too bad about selling things if they don’t suit me! This year, I need to update my digital wardrobe and keep track of what I am wearing. I plan to sell things that aren’t my style, don’t fit well, or I don’t see myself reaching towards. I might try to lean my pieces more gothic, since I know that’s my main style I’ll keep.


Find my Wishlist Items 

Luckily I'm not too big of a collector, so there aren’t really specific "dream dresses" on my list. If something fits the vibe I like, it can easily become one of my favorites. Honestly, I’ve found almost everything that I could possibly want in my lolita wardrobe this year. I definitely have a few things I’d love to fill the niche for, but I think I’d also be content with not having those. Let’s just see if I find them for a good deal or can sew them myself! Here are some of those items:
  • Black x White velveteen OP
  • Red Tartan JSK
  • Black x White lace monster
  • White OP
  • Emerald Velveteen JSK or OP


Make Jfashion Art Every Month

I’d love to get back into drawing, especially featuring jfashion in my artwork. I used to draw way more, but I haven’t gotten back into it! I think it would be great if I could also start taking commissions. My goal is to make at least one Jfashion drawing per month! Haha, it’s not very much, but at least it is something.


Film a Wardrobe Tour

This is a classic January activity for Lolitas, and I finally feel like I have an interesting enough collection to film a video for. I’ll most likely be doing main pieces, but if I have enough time and energy I’ll try to include accessories as well! I really enjoy watching old school wardrobe tours and I wish there were more videos out there.


Make Two Main Pieces

I’ve had such a hard time focusing on hobbies due to how busy I am with school. Sewing is so challenging to work on “bit by bit” because of how messy it is, so I usually try to only start projects when I know I can finish in a week or two. I’m hoping that everything calms down a bit and I can finally sew again! I’d love to finally check off some main pieces I’ve planned and acquired the materials for. 

Well, that’s about it! I’m sure there could be more if I spent a bit more time thinking about it. At the end of the day, I don’t have too many concrete goals with this hobby aside from having fun. 

See you all in 2025! Until next time~
Valentine

Saturday, November 9, 2024

Old School Gothic Thrift Flip!

Have you ever found Lolita items while thrifting? If you happen to wear proto or old school Lolita, there’s quite a bit of opportunity to play with offbrand items. Usually vintage items or things with a bit of room for a petticoat can work. Sometimes, they can require a bit of alteration, but many things have potential. Or if you’re lucky, you might just find something that’s nearly perfect~ 😉 I went thrifting with a friend, and surprisingly there was a vintage flea market happening that day. (TBH, the prices are a bit higher than your standard thrift, but still reasonable for the curation some vendors did.) It only happens once a month, so we were lucky to come at the right time!  

One vendor was selling some costume items and many unique pieces. One of these happened to be a gothic dress from The Pyramid Collection. My mind immediately jumped to VISIBLE and Marble’s designs, which are very similar in construction. I absolutely adore their pieces, and I knew that this dress had the same potential.

For a $34 dress, the fabric felt similar to cotton and had some embroidered details. The construction was good and the details on the sleeves were great.You can see the side-by-side comparison with my VISIBLE OP. They both are really short in the front, but the back is longer on the Pyramid Collection dress and there is a sweetheart neckline rather than a Peter Pan collar. Otherwise, they look to be very similar! 

Here it is tried on. Luckily it fits alright! Both of these dresses are really short on me, so I always wear an underskirt (also by VISIBLE). It’s not pictured here though~

Onto the next find! This is a simple patent leather purse with a metal clasp enclosure. For $15, it feels well made and totally gives old school vibes. Although it seems boring at first glance, a simple alteration can turn it into a gothic statement piece. 

So what did I end up doing with them? I always wanted a bag with a cross charm on the front, similar to this bag by Victorian Maiden. It’s a bit more classic and refined than I prefer, so I was glad that I was able to find a more chunky basic bag.

Victorian Lady Bag (2019)

Luckily, this is a super easy DIY! I ordered some charms from Aliexpress and just glued one onto it. Honestly, it really does look like a bag from an old school brand to me~

The Result

As for the dress, I was inspired by the iconic Marble set that has also been duped by Good Luck. I think the ribbon bows going across the bodice are so cute!

Good Luck Set

I also loved that this dress had a sweetheart neckline, but it was definitely missing some lace. I made myself a choker to add some interest to the neck area. It turned out so beautiful! 

The Result

I wore a long skirt under it to give it a more EGA look. With these small alterations, I think it actually looks quite different from the VISIBLE OP, even with their similarities! What do you think?

Hope this was a fun little post! Thanks for reading~

Valentine